I’m married to a cis-woman (have been for over a decade) and am very happy. It led me to be more confident in myself and what I like sexually. He was sweet and passionate, as well as quiet and strong. It was the first time I felt another man inside me. We smiled, and my heart started to beat faster, so I took his hand and led him to a private room. I walked farther in and explored the different rooms until my eyes locked with another cute guy.
"But I had to pass - I was not ready for a threesome in the open for others to watch. Through a dark labyrinth with loud club music, I came upon a couple being VERY intimate. You had to pay to get in, and there were rainbow flags by the door. There was a section in the back that was all dark.
I was bashful and didn’t know how to meet another guy for a hookup, so, while walking around the city one day, I went into an adult video store.
It was my first time being away from anyone who knew me, so I felt free and open to dive right in and have my sexual awakening (with ALL the wine flavors). "I studied abroad in Australia in the early 2000s. Every now and then we’ll get together to be naughty, but he’s the only guy I would do that with, and he’s told me he feels the same way."ġ2. To this day, I've never been with another guy (I’m very much into women). He hesitated a bit, but it wasn’t long until we acted like teenagers in the back of his car. "I felt for the guy, and he was my best friend at the time, so I offered to take care of him for the night. Eventually the conversation got to how we weren’t going home with anyone for an 'adult slumber party.' He kept saying how it would’ve been the cherry on top of his perfect last day." We decided to call it a night but were too buzzed to drive home, so we hung out in his car until we sobered up. We tried our luck meeting some women at the bar, but no dice.
The night went on, and the rest of our coworkers headed home, so it was just him and me left. On his last day, a bunch of us went out to celebrate with him. After some time, he decided to leave for a new job. We set our availability to match each other's and even carpooled together. "I had a retail job and became pretty tight work buddies with one guy. Your sex partners don't determine your sexual orientation."ġ0. Honestly, sex with straight guys was fun and exciting.
In the end, they're still straight, and I'm still gay and happily married to my husband of 12 years. I was open, honest, safe, and respectful of my partners. I'm gay, but I hooked up with a handful of men and women in my 30s. I saw him a year later, and his girlfriend joked to me, 'So, you're the one who gave my boyfriend the best head of his life? Thanks for that.' Then I joked, 'I could always teach you.' It was hilarious." Two of his buddies were like, 'How do you know him?' He answered, 'We hooked up a few weeks ago.' His buddies got all homophobic on him, so he asked, 'You guys have never messed around with another guy?' They both got really quiet. I ran into him two weeks later at a bar, and he was just as nice. "When I was in my 30s, I hooked up with this straight lumberjack-type guy.